Before "I do", is a complete premarital counseling workbook for those considering marriage, already in a marriage or engaging in a lasting relationship(s). The book consists of 200 pages of information, questionnaires, and charts that readers can complete together in the comfort of their own home or with their therapist. Some words from the author, "My goal for this workbook is that it allows you to better understand your partner and your relationship. My hope is that anyone can use this book no matter their gender, sexual orientation educational level, etc., within the privacy of their own home or with their therapist. I hope you use this book to evaluate your relationship and have a clearer understanding of it. In marriage/unity, some of the smallest things can become an issue in your relationship(s). The ultimate goal with this book is that you realize that your marriage/unity isn't about your wedding day, it's about what comes after it."